Guess who’s finger that is? Any guesses? If you guessed a narcissist then you’re correct!
Narcissists push buttons, test the waters, and hone in on your weaknesses. They touch many people and various aspects of life in so many negative ways that they need to come with a warning label. You know, one of those poison stickers or how about a red cap or at least the word WARNING in big red letters. The problem is that they don’t come with a warning label, their agendas are hidden, and their charm hides the truth allowing them to push over that first domino. Let the tumbling begin!
With every narcissistic rage, the domino effect happens causing one or more people to be frightened, intimidated, and fearful. Kids get abused and victims loose their identities. Another tumbling effect is when narcissists spend money as if there were numerous money trees in the back yard, the family’s finances go down the toilet because living for the moment and gathering “stuff” is their motto. Let’s not forget the lying domino. Narcissists lie a lot and the effects are widespread covering up infidelity and the littlest things in life all because they need to be mysterious, sneaky, and in control.
Narcissists pick and choose their dominoes. They know your weaknesses and push and shove here and there to get their desired effects. If their fuel stops (or we could say the domino line stops falling), well then they just choose another row of dominoes to manipulate. It’s all about cause and effect and the next thing you know all of the dominoes are down. This means the victim is right where the narcissist wants. Defeated. You will be stressed beyond recognition and fatigued to the point of having no fight left. Your confusion will be overwhelming and your anger will consume you. The smear campaign will be extensive and the game is not worth playing anymore because nobody will believe you. Sound familiar?
Narcissists are excellent at playing dominoes! This way of playing dominoes is nothing I would be proud of that’s for sure. Imagine knocking them down on purpose to create havoc, stress, fear, anxiety, and depression for the people you supposedly love? I hope you can see what I’m saying and take control of the game you’re in.
A big domino for me has been a smear campaign. The word on the street is “I’m mean!” LOL. I have to laugh at this. Think about all of the affects a smear campaign cause as the sound waves go out like ripples in the water after a huge rock is tossed into a lake. Holding your head high through that isn’t the easiest thing to do, but my head is high. Luckily I have incredible faith that has blessed me through all of this. Let’em talk, because I’m not going anywhere nor do I have to answer to anybody. I answer to my heavenly father, who is all I need.
I have realized lately, that I’m putting up the dominoes faster now than they are getting pushed over. I’m ahead of it, finally! I won’t let any more aspects of my life get pushed over anymore. All the dominoes are standing up and any that he tries to push over are figments of his imagination. Excuse me while I smile and giggle a bit. 🙂
Don’t let the domino effect happen anymore. Why be with someone who wants to keep pushing your buttons and creating complete chaos! They’re destructive people with an invisible warning label that I hope to shed light on to everyone who reads my blog across this globe. The warning label isn’t invisible once you educate yourself. Start putting up those dominoes that were pushed over. They were pushed over on purpose! What nerve! Even better, not only set up those dominoes, but make them colorful and arrange them into pathways for success and happiness, because YOU DESERVE IT! You can do it, just like I have! Boy does it feel good!